Identity and Self-esteem
In the sixth and seventh chapters of Disunity in Christ , Cleveland begins to address some of the more flagrant issues regarding “us” and “them”. She begins by talking about what she terms “identity wars” in chapter six, and continues on to “culture wars” in the seventh chapter. I found the studies she explained fascinating, the idea that people will react negatively to someone simply because they speak a different language is disheartening. My heart hurts knowing that we are brought up to fear anyone who is even slightly different. These unconscious traits of aggression go against the very essence of Christianity: to love your neighbor as yourself. However, I also found it both fascinating and encouraging as Cleveland talked about self-esteem. Tearing others down is a simple solution to low self-esteem, as she mentioned, but it also antithetical to several Biblical principles (Ephesians 4:9 says “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpf...